31 December 2010 0 Comments

Are you heading for divorce?

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Do you have a strong feeling that your marriage is heading to an end?  Is your relationship with your spouse over?  There are ways to determine the answers to these questions.  Ask yourself: 

·        Do you and your spouse communicate?  Communication is very important in any relationship.  If you no longer share details of your daily life with your partner, look for a red flag close by.  Confide in each other; it will relieve stress and strengthen the bond you once had with each other.

·        Compromise is very important even if it is reached through arguing with your partner.  You must find middle ground in order to survive in your marriage.  You should not let issues go unresolved – find a solution.

·        A healthy marriage does not mean you have to do everything together, but if you do everything as a single person, this is not good.

·        Respect is a crucial aspect of any relationship.  Address feelings that make you feel disrespected; don’t keep them bottled up inside.

·        If you find the negatives are outweighing the positives in your relationship, you have a very big problem.

·         Finally, if one of you has stopped making an effort and has become withdrawn from the relationship, it may be time to think about divorce and walk away.

If you see several warning signs and cannot go anymore in your marriage, it may be time to contact an experienced California Family Law attorney to discuss divorce.  He or she will guide you on what to do next.  Letting go of an unhealthy relationship may be the best thing you can do for yourself.

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